[edgtf_dropcaps type=”normal” color=”#d6a67c” background_color=””]C[/edgtf_dropcaps]and mi-am intalnit sotul, nu am intrebat in ce zi este nascut pentru ca imi doream foarte tare sa traiesc experienta la maxim. Si mi s-a parut ca el mi-a intins cumva acea mana care te invita spre descoperiri. Acea mana pe care o vad destul de frecvent pe retelele de socializare zilele astea. E o imagine cu o mana intinsa si perechea care vine din urma si sunt pusi pe calatorii. Ei bine, asta mi-a oferit el. Si am urmat aceasta cale. De fapt cand ne-am cunoscut eu eram mereu prinsa cu treaba si el era la fel. Eram si pe ture diferite si cumva am convenit sa nu avem asteptari prea mari de la timpul fiecaruia. Si nu am consultat nicio clipa hororScopul si nu regretam deloc asta.

Cand ne-am hotarat sa facem un copil impreuna aveam deja multi ani de relatie impreuna. Eu am crezut ca e partenerul potrivit care sa ma inteleaga si sa facem impreuna o echipa sa crestem bine un copil. Si acum daca ar fi sa aleg din nou nu m-as uita la zodie si la horoscop. Stiu ca vad multi oameni care se inteleg bine cu semeni meniti sa fie apropiati, dar eu nu functionez asa. Sunt probabil destul de potrivita cu caracteristicile zodiei mele, dar educatia primita ma face sa fiu si acea personalitate care cauta un partener, un egal, un om la fel de incapatanat si ambitios ca mine. Si asta am langa mine. Si imi place. Si cumva ma bucur ca nu m-am uitat la horoscop. Sigur, pot spune ca mi-am dorit un copil in aceeasi zodie cu mine. Si cumva prima sarcina era menita sa fie ca mine, dar esecul acelei incercari m-a invatat ca e mai bine sa am un copil sanatos. Si asa am ales sa fie un copil intr-o zodie care va fi mereu in cumpana si va gandi mereu fiecare decizie. Sau poate nu. Este si el la fel de ambitios ca noi. Si vrea sa faca lucruri si sa ajunga departe. Si imi place asta la el. Si ce spun zodiile? Cui ii pasa? Sunt niste conjuncturi, sunt niste date si niste oportunitati. Tata m-a invatat mereu sa iau in considerare urmatoarea situatie: cei de pe Titanic au avut toti banii din lume si totusi nu au avut noroc. Deci totul in viata tine de noroc si de a te prinde bine de orice sansa care iti apare in viata. Sigur, e nevoie sa cantaresti o decizie, nu sa vezi oportunitati peste tot.

E important sa fim noi insine, sa ne bazam pe instinct si sa mergem senini pe cararea pe care o alegem. Asta am facut eu cu alegerile mele in viata. M-am bazat mereu pe instinct. Am simtit puternic cand am luat o decizie. Uneori nu am cantarit suficient o decizie, dar am vazut ulterior partea plina a paharului si am invatat sa ma adaptez chiar daca alegerea nu era cum imi imaginasem eu. E important sa stim sa ne adaptam situatiilor. Si aici horoscopul nu te poate ajuta. Oricine ai fi, si din orice zodie, e important sa traiesti viata si sa o imbratisezi asa cum vine. Pana acum nu ma plang de alegerile mele. Sunt fericita in propriile incaltari. 

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[edgtf_dropcaps type=”normal” color=”#d6a67c” background_color=””]W[/edgtf_dropcaps]hen I met my husband, I have not asked him what day was he born on because I wanted to live this to the fullest. And it seemed he somehow spread his arm to take me on a brand new quest. That kind of arm stretch that you see so frequently these days on the social networks. It’s the image of an arm stretched and the point of view of his/her pair following into these brand new travels. Well, this is what he offered me. And I followed that path. Actually when we met I was always busy with my work same as him. We were even on different shifts and we decided not to expect too much of each others time. And I never opened the HorrorScope and we don’t regret it at all.

When we decided to have a kid together we were already old enough in this relationship. I thought he was the right partner to understand me and also to team up so we best raise a kid together. If I were to choose again I woudn’t look for star signs or horoscopes. I know I see a lot of people who get along well based on the star sign picks, but I don’t work by those rules. I am probably suitable for my star sign, but the education and choices make me that unique individual which is looking for a partner, an equal, a person just as stubborn and ambitious as myself. And that is what I have next to me. And I love it. And I am glad I haven’t picked by star sign. Of course I cannot say I wished for a kid to be under the same star sign like me. And somehow my first pregnancy was supposed to be such, but the failure taught me it’s best to have a healthy child. And that is why I chose to have a kid under a star sign which will always ponder and will always think and rethink every decision. Or maybe not. He is also very ambitious like both of us. And he wants to make things happen and move forward. And I love that about him. And what do signs say? Who cares? There are some signs, some dates and some opportunities. My dad has taught me to take in consideration the Titanic situation: they had all the money in the world but had no luck. So most things in life depend on luck and grabbing some opportunities as they show up in lives. Of course, you need to weigh a decision, not to see opportunities everywhere.

It’s important to be ourselves, to rely on our instinct and to walk with clear minds down the bath we choose. I used this in all the choices I have made in my life. I listened to instinct. I felt strongly everytime I made a decision. Sometimes I didn’t even ponder enough on a choice, but I later saw the full glass and I have learned to adapt to new situations if the decision did not really turn out as imagined. There is no horoscope that can help you under such situations. Whoever you are, from whatever star sign, it’s important to live life and embrace it as it comes. So far I cannot complain about my choices. I am happy to be in my shoes.