Sexy is a state of mind

Sexy mama

Mi-as dori sa vad mai multe mame care sunt constiente de senzualitatea lor dupa ce devin mame. Piele isi revine la forma ferma, sanii tai nu vor mai arata ca inainte, dar tu per total emani mult mai multa senzualitate decat iti poti imagina. Norocul meu a fost ca nu am intrat in depresie dupa nastere. Am auzit despre asta, dar am decis ca nu pot intelege o asemenea stare cata vreme cel mai mare vis a devenit realitate.

Mi-ar placea sa dezbat asta cu alte mame care au trecut prin nastere si au realizat cat de norocoase sunt fara sa treaca prin depresie. Dupa ce treci prin toata sarcina si nasterea si orele nedormite, esti o zeita.

Norocul meu a fost ca nu am intrat in depresie dupa nastere.

Niciun barbat nu poate trai cu atatea ore private de somn si sa fie inca o fiinta iubitoare. Niciun barbat nu poate trai cu tot acel joc ce hormoni si inca sa vada sens in lumea din jurul lui. De aceea cred ca fiecare femeie trebuie sa se simta minunat dupa ce are un copil.

Ador cand ajung acasa dupa munca si simt nevoia sa mai ies la o plimbare cu copilul, cand il imbratisez si realizez ca in imbratisarea aceea il am si pe partener si invat in fiecare zi cat de mult am nevoie de un partener oricat de puternica ma cred eu.

Asta e femeia pe care o vad in oglinda cand ma uit si ma simt bine in pielea mea cand vad energie. Ce riduri crezi ca va observa cineva cand ai atata energie? Obisnuiam sa gandesc ca pot sa le fac pe toate si totul perfect.

De cand am copilul am invatat sa impart cu partenerul de la dragoste la indatoriri. Inca cred ca pot sa fac multe lucruri singura. Dar e important sa le imparti si cu el. Nu te vei lenevi, dar vei castiga mai multe energie sa simti si sa imparti iubire. Si ador cand imi las capul pe bratul lui si am pe cineva cu care sa dezbat subiectele zilei. Si nicio seringa, nicio operatie, nicio lenjerie nu ajuta daca nu ai acel tip de energie.

Moms are sexy

I would love to see more moms be aware of their sensuality after becoming mothers. Your skin goes back to somehow fit, your boobs no longer look firm, but you as a whole have so much sensuality around yourself that you can’t even imagine. I was lucky that I haven’t been depressed after giving birth. I heard about it, but I decided I cannot understand such a state of mind as long as your biggest wish comes true. I would love to discuss this with other moms who went through birth and realised how lucky they are without going through depression. After going through all the pregnancy and birth and sleepless hours, you are a goddess. No man can live with so many hours of lacking sleep and still be a lovable creature. No man can live with all those hormones raging and still make sense to the world around them. This is why I do believe every woman should feel amazing after having a kid. 

I love when I come home after work and feel like taking my baby out for a walk, when I hug him and realize in that hug I also have my partner, and I learn every day how much I need a partner no matter how strong I think I am. That is the kind of woman I see when I look in the mirror and feel good with all the energy I see. What wrinkles do you think anyone notices when you have the energy to do all that? I used to think I am a one man show and I can make everything right. Since being a mother I have learned the importance of sharing with my partner from love to duties. I still believe there are so many things I can make on my own. But it’s important to share them with him.  You won’t get lazy, but you will win more energy to feel and share love. And I like when I lay my head on his arm and when I have someone to debate with what happened over the day. No surgery, no syringe, no sexy lingerie helps that if you don’t have the energy in your life.

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