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Imi doresc sa fiu cine sunt

Din nefericire generatia noastra (’80) a fost crescuta de parinti care ne-au facut sa credem ca suntem unici. Aceasta unicitate vine mai ales din imposibilitatea parintilor nostri de a intelege ca nu mai exista aristocratie pe Pamant si ca nici Zeii nu mai umbla pe aici.

Reprezentam indivizi destul de asemanatori dupa cum pare ca ne place sa cumparam in masa aceleasi bunuri si de asemenea ne unim “sub acoperirea” retelelor de socializare online.

Serios acum, nu suntem speciali.

Sunt o persoana foarte normala intrucat ma duc singura la supermarket si nu am o armata de oameni care sa aiba grija de “rahaturile minore” in timp ce eu imi salut poporul ca o regina. Suntem multi, aparent nu destui sa avem bani de pensii, dar asta e alta discutie. Intr-un mod ciudat, desi ne dorim sa fim speciale, devenim asemanatoare pe masura ce uitam despre adevarata noastra fata si ne aranjam sprancenele, buzele si adaugam genele false. In acest timp, barbatii au devenit atat de stilati si aristocrati, desi totusi lipsiti de maniere. Destul de ciudat cum acesta lume imbratiseaza iar “fleurs du mals”.

Nu esti speciala devenind la fel ca toate celelalte femei. 

Daca nu apelam la proceduri de infrumusetare, fara sa ne dam seama dam bani catre Adidas, IBM, L’oreal, Volkswagen si multor altor branduri pentru a ne face “indivizii unici” care ni se pare ca suntem. Imi doresc ca macar mamele sa se opreasca din aceste procedee si sa aprecieze cat de mult au castigat o data cu venirea pe lume a copiilor lor. Invata sa iti accepti “frumusetea” si varsta nu este doar un text.

Unii accepta oportunitati care ii ridica deasupra maselor. Asta e singura lectie pe care imi doresc ca fiul meu sa o invete.

As vrea sa vada cat de special este el, sa nu fie atras de adeptele optiunilor de “infrumusetare”. Cum cei mici sunt destul de multi in lumea asta mare, trebuie sa le lipseasca ceva suflet ca sa supravietuiasca. Si astfel cel mai intelept ar fi sa aleaga oportunitatea cand le apare in cale si sa ignore orice incurajare spre eliminarea unicitatii.

I Want To Be Exactly Who I Am 

Unfortunately our generation (‘80s) was raised by parents who made us believe we are unique. This uniqueness comes especially from our parents impossibility to comprehend there is no more aristocracy on Earth and there is no more God walking down here. We are each individuals, pretty similar as we seem to mass produce and buy the same goods and also we seem to get together “undercover” in the online social media. This is what makes us pretty similar. I am very normal as I go to the supermarket on my own and I don’t have an army taking care of the “small shitty things” while I am doing my queen hello.

Seriously now, we are no special.

We are a lot, apparently not enough to pay our pensions, but that is another conversation. Women look mostly similar, wear same style and they all seem to look alike with some botox, esthetic surgery, eyebrows, lips or eyelashes. Meanwhile, men are so stylish and aristocratic, while their habits don’t really show so much good manners. Strange enough this world is embracing “fleurs du mals” once again.

You are not special by transforming yourself in any other woman.

In a very strange way we want to be special, but end up become ugly as we forget about real SELF. If it’s not beautifying techniques, people without even knowing are paying Adidas, IBM, L’oreal, Volkswagen and a lot other brands to make themselves the unique individual they wish to be. I wish at least mothers would stop doing this horrifying process to themselves. Learn to embrace your “beauty” and accept your age, it’s not just a tagline. Some of us take opportunities to overcome the masses. That is the only lesson my son should learn rather than the options to “beautify” himself to be better in the mass. As the little ones are quite a lot in a big world, they must lack some heart in order to survive.  And that is how they will take the opportunity. 

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  • Rangam

    You have touched on the essence of individuality …what your parents said abou you….you are unique (special) but I dont think they told you how to go about realising your uniquness

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