teama de virusi

Teama de virusi

Cand l-am adus acasa pe fiul nostru am zis ca orice membru al familiei sau prieten care ne vine in vizita, trebuie sa se spele pe maini inainte sa intre in contact cu micutul. Ma gandesc ca e o regula cumva de bun-simt si uneori pana si eu uitam de ea. Uitam si sa avertizez persoanele venite in vizita ca trebuie sa se spele pe maini.

Totusi sotul meu avea mereu grija de asta. A mers atat de departe incat sa gaseasca si o substanta biocid care se foloseste in spitale. A gasit magazinul Dezimed din apropierea casei, dar am decis impreuna sa renuntam la aceasta idee. Pana la urma nu aveam de gand sa il tinem pe copil intr-un glob de sticla sau intr-un mediu de spital daca nu era cazul.

Trebuie sa isi creasca imunitatea, ne-am zis noi. Am renuntat la idee pentru ca niciunul din noi nu lucra in spital sau nu avea treaba in instituții cu risc crescut de boli usor transmisibile si el era un copil perfect sanatos. Asa ca l-am crescut normal, doar cu spălat pe maini. Si pana acum nu am intampinat nicio problema.

La opt luni, cand a inceput sa se tarasca pe jos, a inceput si sa linga podeaua…

teama de virusi

La inceput eram disperati sa stergem pe jos cat mai des, dar aveti idee cat de
periculoase sunt subtantele cu care curatam noi podelele? Si asa am renuntat sa mai incercam sa tinem podele curate-luna. L-am lasat sa linga podeaua uneori. Aveam sufletul strans ca poate contacta vreun virus sau vreo bacterie, dar cu cat il certam cu atat facea mai rau. Am decis sa il ignoram si a renuntat dupa o luna sau chiar mai putin.

Copiii invata sa depaseasca granite. Cu cat mai multe si mai mari sunt granitele, cu atat e ambitia lor de a le dapasi mai mare. Au acest minunat instinct de supravietuire si nu asculta.

Fiul nostru e o fiinta umana cu drepturi exact ca ale unui adult. Ghidarea ar trebui sa vina cand nu il lasam sa atinga flacara, dar altfel, el ar trebui lasat sa descopere si sa depaseasca orice gaseste ca e un obstacol. Si fiul meu se urca pe orice obstacol, nu ii e teama sa se duca sa verifice temperatura cuptorului, sa vada cine e la usa si asa mai departe. Si germofobia noastra s-a reactivat cand l-am dus la cresa.

teama de virusi

Daca simtiti ca va ajuta, aveti aici cateva poze cu produsele alese. Daca ma intrebi pe mine, cred ca iti ofera un comfort psihic doar. Avem un intreg sistem imunitar care lupta pentru noi. Lasati copiii sa fie copii si sa se bucure cu fiecare descoperire!

Fearing Viruses

When we brought home our son, we decided all the members of the family or friends that come in contact with the little one have to wash their hands before touching the little one. I would think it’s the basic and sometimes even I forget about it. I would forget to warn those coming to visit him to wash their hands before touching him.

Still, my husband always took care of this. He even went out to find the hospital used biocide. He found Dezimed shop which is close to our home, but we decided together to give up on the idea. After all we were not keeping our son in the closet or in a hospital environment if that was not necessary.

He needs to increase his immunity, we thought. The idea was dropped as none of us was having contact with hospitals or high risk transmissible disease institutions and he was a very healthy child. So we started raising a normal kid. We didn’t meet any problems so far. 

At eight months, when he started crawling, he started licking the floor…

We used to wash the floor of the house as often as possible in the beginning, but do you know how much more dangerous are the substances we are using to wash the floor? And that is when we gave up trying to keep every floor perfectly clean. We let him lick the floor sometimes. We were scared he would contact virus or bacteria, but the more we banned him, the worse he would lick. We decided to ignore him when doing so and he gave up after one month or not even.

They learn to break boundaries. The more and bigger boundaries, the bigger their ambition to overcome. They have this great survival instinct and they don’t listen.

Our son is a human being with rights just like adults. Guidance should come in not letting him touch the burning flame, but otherwise, he should be left to discover and overcome whatever he finds to be an obstacle. And my son climbs any obstacle, doesn’t fear to go and check out temperatures on the oven, see who’s at the door and so on.

And our mysophobia reactivated when we took him to daycare. Attaching here some very strong solutions if you want to find your peace of mind. If you ask me those are just comforting your mind. We have a whole immunity system fighting for us. Let kids be kids and enjoy the discovery!

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